My friend has been going through a rough patch in her relationship with a certain guy. And when I say 'relationship', I mean boyfriend/girlfriend...as well as just friends. I'm not going to be saying any names because this sort of thing is private. The only people who know what I'm talking about are the only ones that should know anyway.
But anyway, her and this guy had a pretty good relationship. But after a while, my friend's feelings started to fade for this guy. Things changed and feelings for other people grew. They kinda just grew apart. Ever been here before? Are you here now? If so, keep on reading. After they're break up, they swore that they would still be friends. Which, I'm sure everyone would wish for right? I mean, just because you don't work out as a couple doesn't mean that it should ruin your friendship as well. You might not be the friends you once were, but you could start a whole new friendship. Now this guy, who promised that they would still be friends and that they would still talk, started taking some advice from his friends. And pshh. Girls know that guys can be total jerks when it comes to their friends. Am I right? He started treating her like nothing. Actually, he pretended she was nothing. He ignored her calls and messages for a bit. They ran into eachother once and instead of listening to what she had to say, he said he had too much to do and left. Now we all want what we can't have. So, naturally, she started to fall for him all over again. I'm pretty sure it started with how much she missed him. Not just as a boyfriend, but as a friend. They got to talking a little bit more and finally worked out a bunch of things. My friend [the girl] decided to go to this guys best friend. To get a little bit of leverage to help her out and to keep him from telling this guy to do the wrong thing. Now this all may sound confusing, but if your still reading it than it can't be too bad ;) They hung out more and talked a lot. You know where they are now? DATING. Yep. You did just read that. They're back together and hopefully for a while.
Now sometimes, giving in to the cruelty of the guys 'strategy' isn't always the best thing to do. You should take some time to think over it. Make sure that you do in fact actually have feelings for this guy and you don't just miss him or get jealous of something that he does. Because if you go back out for the wrong reasons, you're going to repeat everything all over again and someone is just going to get hurt twice as bad, and it'll probably be you! So stay strong, keep your chin up, and know there's always hope! You'll find that perfect fella someday. ♥ LLL.
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